interesting article i read online..

Motif Cinta Segitiga, Pembunuh Elen Dikenali di Facebook

E Mei Amelia R - detikNews

Jakarta - Identitas pembunuh Maria Fransisca Bernadette Ellen Sutjiadi telah dikantongi polisi. Diduga kuat, motif pembunuhan terhadap gadis cantik di Pacific Place Mall itu adalah cinta segitiga.

"Memang pelaku dan korban punya hubungan asmara cinta segitiga," kata Direktur Reskrimum Polda Metro Jaya Kombes Pol M Iriawan pada detikcom di Bundaran HI, Jakarta, Rabu (1/4/2009).

Sketsa wajah si pembunuh pun telah disiapkan. Polisi pun akan mengejar pelaku hingga tertangkap. "Sampai sekarang keberadaan pelaku belum diketahui," kata Irianto.

Sementara itu seorang sumber di Polda Metro Jaya mengatakan, identitas pelaku terungkap dari situs jejaring Ellen, Facebook. Si pelaku mengenakan kalung yang sama persis dengan kalung yang tertangkap di CCTV Pacific Place.

"Jadi dia ketemu di Facebook," kata sumber tersebut.

source : detik.com

so basically the police went through Ellen's facebook and track them one by one... ?

word?

a great Sunday!

bangles from ShopBeautifulDisaster
rings from Forever 21
Gucci Bamboo watch *gift from my dad 6 years ago*

my first attempt in making Aglio Olio spaghetti..
since I can't find any shrimp in the freezer,
I use mom's black pepper marinated steak.. and its oh so dee-lish!! :D
and I just found out that dried chili are as hot as the fresh chili. Haha. silly me :D

We went to watch my good friend Zaky play airsoft gun.. They have 2 groups, and these 2 groups play against each other.

Yes.

Shooting those BB round ceramic bullets to each other.
what a way to get some 'manly' bruises...
They're all geared up, of course.
But there are some horrifying stories on how he chip a tooth because of the bullet..
at first I don't get how he can chip a tooth. But as we watch him on the field, he was smiling and laughing the whole game! very cheeky guy.
and I go : "so, they must have shot you when you were smiling eh?"
the guy just laugh away.
silly .

Anyway, thats my boyfriend posing in a very Rambo like pose with Zaky's friend's modified gun.
pretty cool.
the gun, not Louis. hahaha !
kidding. love you baby.

decided to go a lil' casual today with my oh so boring leggings (those are my aerobic leggings btw hahaha), giordano basic tank top, Forever 21 loose top and lots of accessories seen above! :D

Austin and Langkawi :)

Austin!! (the pretty girl on the left) my dear friend from Surabaya, owner of Honda Saver. CUTE, God's humble servant and SINGLE!! She is one of the nicest person I've ever met, she send me encouragement emails every now and then, and I always feel so blessed after reading them :) miss you Tin!

One of the thing I am so looking forward to this April is the F1 at Sepang, and the trip to Langkawi with my sister! *woohoo!*
I hope it looks as lovely as these pictures downloaded from flickr :)
looks divine..
Anyway I have to go aerobic next week, tone up my flabby stomach and hope to God that I'll look good in swimsuit for 6th of April :S hahaha!
time is my worst enemy.
or else, I'll just wear my dress and swim! hmm.. sounds like a plan.

the darn mouse..

Lusi (my accounting manager) was telling me weeks ago that during her lembur days, she saw a small rat/mouse running here and there inside our office area. She even jokes about it and call it her 'lembur mate' ...

-_-
...

i know.. right?


Well I had a good laugh about that and start making up jokes about how she and the mouse grew fond of each other and stuffs, and then totally forgot all about it.
Until one fine day during one of our lunch few days ago, Anna (my secretary) was looking for the kerupuk leftover she kept for us to eat.. and then saw that the kerupuk was already stale, with little holes here and there...
and then she saw that the little holes are actually bite marks..
and then she says :

YA AMPUN TIKUSNYA MAKAN KERUPUKNYA!! SIALAN!!
she screamed.

and then she told my office boy to get those glue mouse traps to trap them all.
she even put fish heads (lunch leftover) as the baits ..

ahh..
you know the beauty of having a working mother as my secretary is that she take care of EVERYTHING.. minus the nagging and the telling you what to do.
i love her.

the next day, we caught 3!!! YIPPEY!!
those suckers fell for the fishheads!
and we even joke about how Lusi will no longer have a companion during her lembur days. hahaha..

I thought the problem stops there.

I WAS DAMN WRONG!!
today,
Anna report to me that the mouse/rat (for random reason we'll call it Mickey from now) ate my favorite nuts that we store up the shelves,
bite the teh kotak that we kept inside for guests..
and PEED in my admin's PRINTER... which costs me Rp.500.000 to fix!!!

THAT DAMN MICKEY!!

picture courtesy of flickr.com

THIS . MEANS. WAR!

so I told Anna *furiously* to get more of those damn glue mouse trap.. and since today's catering menu is IKAN ASIN, we're gonna have LOADS of baits. and I'm going to make sure those bastards get caught and we're going to spray hot water on them. *evil laugh*
no I'm just kidding about the hot water. I'll let my office boy do that for me.

the bridesmaid diary..

my cousin's wedding

Isa's Wedding

Irinne's Wedding

There's this belief at Chinese Tradition that a girl must never be a bridesmaid more than 3 times. They said that its going to slow that girl's wedding's path.
Meaning : NOT Getting MARRIED SOON! in other word.. MARRIED LATE.
and as I can hear my dad Wohoo-ing in joy from far away, it is definitely not one of my dream to get married late :S

Being raised in the semi-western school since 5th grade with my semi-western minded parents and dating the semi-western boyfriend, I would say 'BOLLOCKS!' to this and not care at this superstitious crap.

But then beliefs always have their base .. and in this case, I started listening to all the auntie's stories and the gossips. And somehow it FRIGGIN TRUE!!
Auntie X's daughter somehow ended up being an old virgin (well, we don't know about that.. ahem) because she accepts way too many bridesmaid offers, and then she forgets to collects the hongbao (the red envelope) from the bride... hence she's an old maid now.
ITS SCARING THE SHIT OUT OF ME!!!

so Yes peeps, since I've been bridesmaid for 3 times (refer to the pictures above) , sadly I have to say that I can't accept bridesmaid offers anymore.

Sobs.. oh just thinking of all those beautiful dresses that I will never have...

(no peeps, over here at Indonesia its not always like at US where bridesmaid dresses are horrendously colorful and very festive. Over here, its mostly demure and polite with a pinch of color or tweaks here and there.. but still fattening somehow.. or maybe its just me. lol)

Anyway, I'm altering all my bridesmaid dresses and I'm going to add crystals and laces here and there and turn them into cocktail dresses. Recession has taken its toll on me and it has make me creative.

NOTE : KREATIF means KERE TAPI AKTIF.
So watch out for the altered dresses! I will try to put the before and after picture side by side just for the sake of it :D Maybe it'll give you some inspirations to do your own.

anyway,
I hope the brides don't mind :P

panda = me??

since people start calling me panda (only God knows how this happens)
might as well post really cute pics of panda!
pictures courtesy of CuteOverload

browse their site for a lift-me-up moment and 45 degree head tilting along with a long : AWEEEEE coming from your soft side.

they're cute, they're furry. they're adorable, whats not to love?
:)

im feeling... blue!

I bought this lace tights online

never really had the chance to wear them due to my Dengue Fever :(
but its Sunday! and I'm as free as a bird! so I experiment a bit and this is what I came up with :)
I love mixing dresses with belts and cardigans. :) they just look too cute! :D
I also bought a pair of metallic silver leggings, waiting for me to experiment with .. but apparently my legs looks humongous in it! *gasp!*
time for some adjustments.. So.. will post pictures once I alter it to my desired length.

urban outfitter shoes!

urban outfitter shoes gives me such joy :D It really makes me happy to see nice shoes, especially those that are so damn difficult to find at Jakarta :S ah at times like these I wish I stay at US..
Anyway, feast your eyes and Enjoy! :)

My hair journal..

okayy.. Lets see what have we done so far..


5th grade... short hair, and you can tell that I like bandana since 5th Grade, lol.
my hair is really boring during highschool, and I can't find any pictures of them :S boohoo.. will try to look for it at Jakarta.

the first time I tried the Japanese fringe look. lolz. or also known as the Bowl fringe look. Put a bowl on your head and start snipping the excess fringe. haha.

I look so childish here! This is me at Uni, can you believe I dress like that to uni?? what the.
ps: I haven't discovered the magic of eyeliner. (2003)

my glasses, somehow I don't need them anymore now. hmm.. funny.. (2003)

no makeup :S boohoo.. I look like a he! oh! I used to have such a huge crush on the guy on the right side. but who can blame him. He's so cute! And he used to work at Action City (a toy store at Bugis) and we used to visit his store after school and adore him from the corner.. and giggling. hahaha. yes, lots of giggling. He's my bro's friend. (My bro is the dude on the left side) (2003)

my hair color is actually brown here... but you can't tell. :D I love my hairstylist at Singapore. Her name is Michelle, she works at Haru Scene at Far East Plaza Lvl. 1. And her style is so Japanese.. ;D (2004)

Long and boring :S

ahh nicer here.. (and oh! I've discovered make up!! ahahaha)

curls done by Michelle :) (2005)

See?? So curly :) me likey! (end of 2005)

still went for the curls at 2007.. and blonde. :S

Random pic.. hahaha.

My fave hairdo..... I'm going to bring this picture to my hairstylist at Jakarta and ask him to do the exact same thing. hahaha.

the horror thoughts of giving birth.

I was visiting my salesman's wife at the hospital this morning. She just gave birth to this really cute handsome baby boy. And I asked Septi (the wife) how the labor was.

"Is it painful?"
"Did they have to cut your va-jay-jay?"
"Can u feel when they cut your thing?"
"When they stitch them up, did you feel anything?"

And she goes.. "nope.. not really.. I think the pain of the cutting is not as painful as the contraction.."
and then I asked :"is it as bad as when you drink laxative and you really have to go?"
she laughed and told me :"compared to that?? this is waaay worst!"

and my face turned white.
and I told myself : I can't do that.. I just cant!
why?
well let me tell you why..

once upon a time during the silly days at Singapore, I got food poisoning.

I was sooo hungry that day, but I got so lazy to go downstairs to go to the nearest Kopitiam and get me some food. So I just start looking for instant noodles.
I saw a package at the corner of the drawer in the kitchen.
I cooked the noodle happily,
and eat like a pig.

2 hours later..
.
.
.
.
I start having this REALLY BAD STOMACHACHE!!
and to add up the spice, I can't even fart!!!
and I start puking like preggers.
what the hell???
the pain was so unbearable,
I just hold my stomach and curl like a shrimp, hoping for it to go away,
I can't even poo!!!!
I don't have the strength to poo..
I don't have the talent to PUSH!
man.

luckily moments later, after the shot (yes, they have shots for food poisoning) the pains kinda goes away, so I can poo in peace.
lesson well learned.

I really have to start practicing pushing other stuffs out of me before I push a baby out of my va-jay-jay!!

so for all of you out there lazy peeps who won't push...
You have TO START PRACTICE PUSHING FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR BABY!!!

practice practice practice!!

start pooping, now!

Congratulations Handri + Retaa!!

Another married couple..
Ahhh.. After a while, I get used to receiving wedding invitations from my friends.
And all I can say is : ohh.. look... he/ she's getting married this year. Hmm.. thats hard to believe. We used to hang out during high school.. blablabla.
Man that's a classic one.
Sigh. Oh well, my time will come soon I guess *shrugs*